It’s never going to be easy preparing for the passing of a pet but here are a few tips to help make the process a little easier.
Anyone who has owned a pet would agree that they are certainly more than just animals; they become a member of the family, providing endless unconditional love and support.
As pets age and start to slow down, it becomes apparent that the inevitable is approaching. Whilst having to think and prepare for a pet’s passing is sad, the reality is that we will usually outlive them and have to say goodbye. It’s important to remember that all living creatures do pass on and we need to acknowledge and plan for it.
Social support and rituals are a large part of the grieving process for human beings, but the same cannot always be said when the loss is a beloved pet. Due to this, many people find the grief to be quite lonely and isolating.
As the time approaches to say goodbye, here are some ideas to help prepare and comfort you.
Spend quality time with your pet
Spending time with your pet allows you to start the grieving process in a way that you can control. At this time, you can allow a few extra indulgences and treats and incorporate visits to favourite outdoor spaces.
Talk to family members about the passing
Talking to family, especially children, and explaining that a pet is sick/old and that they may not be around much longer can reduce the shock when they finally do pass. Answering questions and providing them with appropriate details before the death happens will have everyone better prepared.
Have a trusted vet to assist with the passing of a pet
There are times when a pet may need to be euthanised to prevent them from suffering. Ensuring you have a good relationship with your vet will allow you to feel comfortable making that decision when the time is right.
Take photos and gather mementos
Now is the time to make sure you have all the photos that you want of your pet as well as maybe getting a paw print to remember them by. When your pet does pass, you can put together a collage of photos and memories to remind you of the good times.
Make arrangements for burial
What will happen after your pet passes? There are lots of options and having this put in place beforehand, saves you from having to make difficult decisions when the time comes. They can be buried or cremated, though you will have to check that you comply with your local council rules. If you decide to have them cremated, you could choose a pet urn for their ashes, so you can keep them at your home or other special place.
A place of remembrance
Whatever you decide to do with their remains, having a place to go to reflect and remember your beloved pet is a fantastic way to deal with the grief. A special spot, seat or tree could be used to spark joy.
Preparing for the passing of a pet
There’s no way to remove the sadness and grief that comes when you lose a beloved fur baby. But taking control of the process means that you will be better prepared when the time does come for them to cross that rainbow bridge.
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